fix: remove redundant STUN server
perf: support disable STUN server (for local networks)
perf: update GOMEMLIMIT from 50 to 75
perf: add `-b` parameter to `ether-wake`
chore: bump vite to v6.2.1
- changing password will modify both the web user and the system root user
- refactor menu bar
- add oled automatic sleep
- support setting GOMEMLIMIT, and automatically enabled when tailscale is logged in
- some other bug fixes and optimizations